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Here is the updated list of things prohibited on Niteflirt. If you have any questions, you may contact me directly on Niteflirt.

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Child Pornography or any depiction of a child. Discussions about your kids, what you were like before you were 18, the term “Lolita” or kids in general is not allowed. This includes content which suggests you may be younger than 18, and references to High School. NiteFlirt will not allow any mention of “TEEN” without clarifying that the character is 18 or 19. The term NYMPHETTE is not allowed. Wish lists with children’s items are not permitted. Images of children are not permitted. If a photo includes a minor under the age of 18, it is not permitted on NiteFlirt. The term “babydick” even used as reference in SPH is a TOS violation.
Incest and Incest Fantasies including “step” relations, “in-law” relations, and “Daddy,” “Mommy,” “Grandmother,” “Aunt,” or any fantasy about a family member. Even a third cousin twice removed. No family relations, period. Flirts may use terms like Grandma, Mother, or the like if, and only if, it is used to describe their character. While you may use the term MILF or GILF no other terms for “Mother”, “Daddy”, “Grandmother” or other family members are allowed in Member Names.(“Uncle Sam” in the context of the US mascot/poster is permitted)
Underage Role-Play, including all types of Age Play.
Bestiality, including images or depictions of animals (even on clothing, filters, or emojis.
The word “animal” is not permitted in any context. The terms “Bull” “Cougar”and “Paypig” are permitted so long as you don’t use the terms to refer to actual animals or animal-related content. According to a few other threads these words may still get flagged so proceed at your own risk
No cat ears/headbands of any kind, no depictions of animals
Rape Sex, Rape Fantasies or other non-consensual content (even if consented to) including abduction fantasies, alien abduction, forced intoxication, and hypnosis, MKUltra.
Forced Bi, Forced Feminization, and the like For now terms like “encouraged bi/feminization encouragement” ARE okay
No hypno/hypnosis of any kind. For now terms like “mesmerism/mesmerization/brainwashing/trance” ARE okay
Penetration with all four limbs bound (As long as there is no penetration, then all four limbs can be bound for over the clothing/vibe/handjob etc.)
Blood, knife or needle play
Edgeplay (this does NOT refer to withholding orgasm)
Necrophilia, Mock Executions or Executrix, or any fantasy that suggests permanent harm or death.
Castration, Penectomies or Amputations.
Sounding
Toilet, Scat, Urination, Enemas, Roman Showers and Menstrual content, or anything related or that could be construed as one of these topics. (Farting is permitted)
Saying “piece of shit” is allowed, words like: shitter, shit box, shithole, pooper, poophole are not.
ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lovers), Adult Babies
Crushing of animals including insects
Fisting
Racial slurs (race play and racial humiliation are as of now, still okay)
Drugs including the use of illegal drugs, medical marijuana, 420 culture, poppers, or images of drugs. ANY AND ALL INTOX IS OFF LIMITS
Explicit or suggested willingness to violate NiteFlirt’s policies such as “no taboos”, “no limits” and “no restrictions”.
Escort services or in-person meetings (escort ROLEPLAY is permitted so long as it is entirely fantasy)
Castration of any kind, including chemical neutering. No “imaginary” scenarios of not having dick/balls, no eunuchs. You CAN however turn a dick into a pussy There has been a lot of back and forth on the term eunuch but I am under the impression its a no go under any circumstance? Err on the side of caution as always
Vampirism of any kind, no fangs shown either (Succubi is okay, just no blood)
Cannibalism (vore is fine, as in swallowing whole and remaining alive. No chewing or crushing)
Nazi play
Amputations
Infectious diseases (bug chasing etc.)
Physical or virtual keyholding of a real cock cage (chastity and keyholding can be talked about)
Stalking/Yandere –I am still not entirely clear on this but again, I err on the side of caution
Therapy, or any topic that requires a license
Intoxication/alcohol, poppers, or any suggestion of a person being incapacitated and unable to provide consent
Advertising any platform that prohibits adult content, such as Skype
AI generated images/video/content
Abortion

ADDITONAL NOTES/CAVEATS –

Breath play is permitted

“Painal” as of now is okay as long as consent is implied.

Fantasy blackmail is okay as long as no personal information is exchanged

Porn addiction IS allowed

Leashes/collars (for people, not pets) are allowed

Pony Play is somehow still permitted despite the lengthy rules against anything animal related.

Supernatural content like ghosts/possession/demons/witches are allowed- as long as things are consensual. Allowing a ghost/demon into your body, so they can experience human pleasure is ok- but being possessed or possessing against someone’s will is not.

“Content that contain demons or succubi are all permitted at this time. When we’re reviewing material, we’re reviewing the entire context, meaning it’s not just the bat-like wings or tail we’re looking, but rather the content as a whole. If we get the impression that a particular creature is too heavily focused on its tails, tentacles, or what have you, then yes we may reject it for that reason (that it appears too animal-like).”

Aliens are allowed so long as everything is consensual (no abductions) and they don’t focus on any “animal” like qualities they may have.

On mermaids and other “half humans”;

“As long as the content is clearly within the fiction/fantasy world and could not be interpreted as bestiality, it would be allowed. While some creatures (like mermaids) are typically allowed, others (think “werewolves”) usually contain more than a passing resemblance to real animals and therefore would be rejected. And yes, for the mythical creatures that are allowed, normal nudity rules apply.”

No more than one client/customer can be on the other end of the line. Ex; a husband and wife want to both be on the phone with you. No account sharing.

“NiteFlirt will not allow any mention of “teen” without clarifying that the character is 18 or 19. We are making this change to remove any content that may suggest or imply that the character is underage. We also no longer permit references to high school or being high school aged.”

WISHLISTS: “At this time, we only permit Amazon WishLists on NiteFlirt. Please do not add anything under the age of 18 as well as animal products.”

“The term “Babygirl” is not necessarily a violation of our policies, as it is a common term of affection not related to age play. With that said, if there is additional context suggesting the term is being used in a way that may encourage age play, we will not permit the content in question.”

“Brainwashing is actually permitted, so you are welcome to offer that service if you’d prefer to. Hypnosis is prohibited, but terms like brainwashing, mesmerize, trance, and similar are permitted.”

FLAGGED WORDS/PHRASES
A list of words that when and if included in a listing or goody bag, will get flagged by the system. Context at this time does not seem to be taken into consideration in majority of instances

Family (NF was able to fix an error in which flirts were being flagged for using this word because it is a common font name hidden within the HTML)
Kill
Fist
Sounding
“Down for it all” or anything similar in any context, flagged as “willingness to break NF’s rules”
Piss
Force/Forced
“in law”
Pot
Guns

Safe words are pre-chosen words that a D/s couple agrees to say to communicate when they need to slow down or stop in a BDSM scene. Doing this alleviates confusion. You can use safewords inside or outside of the Dungeon. Tell your Dominant your safewords before

Subs who serve Virtual Mistresses (Phone, Cam, Text, etc.) don’t realize that they can request for their Mistress to use and honor their safewords and hard limits. Tell them at the beginning of the virtual session.

The most common safewords are Red, Yellow, and Green like a stoplight. I use these in my BDSM scenes. You can choose other safewords but make sure they are easy to remember.

Safeword Red: Stop NOW. A physical or psychological emergency could be happening. After the sub says Red, they should immediately communicate what is wrong so their Dominant can help them. For medical emergencies, call 911 or take them to the emergency room.

Examples for Red safeword.

Medical Emergency.
Consent Violation.
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
Panic Attack.
Latex or Food Allergy.
Feeling light-headed.
Stomach issues.
Fire has started.
Power blackout.

Side note: Being CPR and First Aid certified can save lives. Contact the Red Cross to see if they offer classes. Always have a well-stocked first aid kit ready for emergencies.

Safeword Yellow: Slow down. If the Dominant continues, the sub will have to safeword Red and stop everything. Many things can be easily handled without having to end the scene.

Examples for Yellow safeword:

Tingling, cold sensation from bondage.
Muscle cramps.
Difficulty breathing through the hood.
Hit too hard with a paddle.
Nipple Clamps are too tight.
Feeling too hot or cold.
Knees very sore from kneeling.
Bathroom break.

Safeword Green: Go! Not everyone uses this safeword, but it’s a way to tell your play partner you like what they are doing.

Safety Signals: If you become distressed while bound, hooded, or gagged, a pre-negotiated hand gesture or the ringing of a bell can signal your Dominant to stop and assist you. Hand signals can be helpful in noisy public dungeons. I have a round cat toy with a bell that fits nicely inside my sub’s hand. He can shake his hand wildly and get my attention.

Important! Anyone who disregards your safe words or signals is violating your consent. Your boundaries should be honored at all times. Call RED or stop everything and explain to them what they did wrong. Miscommunication happens, but don’t tolerate it. If it’s minor, you can give them a warning. If they do it again, stop interacting with them.

If you have been assaulted, go to a safe place and call 911. If the consent violation incident happened at a play party, immediately tell the Dungeon Monitor (DM) and event host about what happened. Contact your local BDSM group to make them aware of the incident. Don’t hesitate. Depending on the severity of the consent violation, they may need to ban this individual from attending future events. One of the upsides of being active in the BDSM community is that we try to warn each other of dangerous people. Luckily this does not happen often, but it had to be addressed in this article.

I hope that you enjoyed my writing. Using safewords and signals will keep your play safe, sane, consensual, and sexy!

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