Aug 25

Ok my dear slave!
Want to make your Mistress smile? Want her to feel girly? Then buy me this Gothic Hello Kitty Bracelet by Tarina Tarantino!

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Pink Head has returned from the streets of Tokyo dressed as both a sweet strawberry-pink Lolita and a dark elegant Gothic girl. Gothic or Lolita…why not both? This stretch cuff bracelet features three rows of Swarovski glass pearls and crystals and a large baroque lucite-framed Gothic Lolita Pink Head cameo. $125.00

If you would like to get this for me, email me at slaveheartquest@aol.com

You would make your Mistress HAPPY!

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Aug 22

There is not a week that goes by that I do not get a sub asking me to be his Mistress. Understand its takes more than being able to take pain or licking my pussy for hours.

To be a good phone submissive, be able to communicate your needs and desires well. I am a Amazing Mistress but I am not a mind reader. Also tell me if you have big turnoffs. With that being said, I will then know how I wish to direct your training. Be very eager to please me. OBEY! Do not cum without my permission! I will use you well! When your phone training session is done, Thank your Mistress. Then leave me great written feedback. I like for my subs to call at least once weekly but more is encouraged.

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Are you curious about what I require from my Lifestyle submissives?
First and foremost, they need to be trustwothy. Never lie to me. A personal submissive is responsible for serving me and caring for everything I own. I need to be able to trust you with my home if I am away. Lying and stealing is punished with prompt dismissal. I have zero tolerance for it.

Trust is the Foundation for any healthy relationship.

A personal submissive should very eager to please. For him its a need. Be quick to do whatever I ask of you. Making me smile gives you pure bliss.

You must be a obedient. What I order becomes a law for you. Disobey and you will be punished. Obey and please me, you may get rewarded.

You must need structure. I will bring structure to your chaotic life. I will know your daily routine intimately. I will become the center of your Universe. I will not take away your time for work, family, friends or your spiritual faith. The rest I will control.

A potential submissive must be single. I do not allow married men to serve me personally. If you lie to your wife, you can lie to me. The same goes for girlfriends too.

A good submissive should be devoted. When you are being trained by me, you serve no other. If I find out you are serving another Mistress, you will be instantly dismissed. I invest a lot of time and effort into my personal submissives. If you cannot give 100%, why should I?

You must have time to serve me. Starting out, I will train you once weekly but as we progress, I will want to see you more often. Eventually, I will want you to serve me daily. If you do not have the time, do not waste my time!

I do prefer masochists or subs who enjoy taking pain. I am really a Erotic Sadist. I enjoy increasing the pain threshold of my subs. If you have seen my list of BDSM Interests, you know I am very experienced in wide variety of torture and Fetishes. Yes, I really do what I list!

A good submissive should be gainfully employed. If you dream of being a 24/7 house slave, then we are not a good fit. I am not a Sugar Momma! If I choose to train you, you will contribute to the household. Especially if you live with me. I am a Queen and I love being spoiled. If you do not like to spoil your Mistress, we are not a good fit.

I enjoy Chastity Training for my personal submissives. It is a very effective training tool. If you cannot handle it, we are not a good fit.

Long Distance subs are OK but hard to train well. I will not relocate to your home. You will come to me.

You must love cats! I own 5 amazing cats and I consider them family, Hurt them and I will come after your ass!

I am naturally Nocturnal. That means I am up all night and sleep most of the day. I am pretty goth minus the black hair in many ways. lol I have tried to become a day walker so many times and it never lasts.

I am Wiccan and you need to be OK with that. Yes, I am a Goddess Worshipper! That does not mean that I will try to convert you but you do need to be supportive.

There must be a “connection” between us. Otherwise are just going through the motions. If we connect, it will happen naturally.

Last but not least, your must be comfortable with me being Professional Dominatrix and Phone Mistress. My work is a passion of mine. I love what I do. Except if you are a millionare, I plan of doing my work until I am too old to do it anymore. If you cannot handle that, do not

That about sums it up. If you have any questions, you may comment here or message me privately.

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Mistress Eva Lordes
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Jul 20

Mistress is so excited! I am going to be filming with some amazing subs this week!

Strap On!
Max can take the biggest dildos I have ever seen! I am talking 15 inches and wider than a coke can! I cannot wait to fuck him!

Fisting!
Yes! I am going to Fist Max too! I have seen what he can take! He can take my fists!

Single Tail Whipping!
Ever wanted to feel the sting of a real whip? I plan on whipping Max hard! You get to see it all.

Face Sitting!
I get to use Trigger as a sit cushion! I have been looking forward to this for quite some time! I will wear black panty hose. Still deciding what else to wear.

I will be posting more details soon!

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Jul 8

This week I have been lucky to see two Anal Whores this week. Ass Whore P, I didn’t Strap On fuck him but saw the amazing photos from this weekend. I have fisted him before though. He has a wonderfully trained ass! He can fuck huge 15 Inch Dildos with big circumferences! I hope to do some Strap On/Fisting Movies and Photo Sets with him later this month!

Ass Whore B, I saw today! He has created Giant Tampon the size of my forearm. Its made out of plastic piping the circumference of a coke can. Inside is a smaller pipe that pushes the tampons in. Yes, we tied 10 Tampons together and tied them to a long piece of string then stuffed them in the tubes.

With lots of lube and patience, we got the giant Tampon in. Then we pushed the tampons in and a string hung out.

We were not done yet. I got my enema set and filled it quarter full. I let the enema saturate the tampons and make them swell inside of him. For Drama and realness, I should have put red food coloring in it..lol

After a few minutes I pulled the Tampons out. Which took some pulling but did fine.

Understand that both of these subs have trained their asses to take all of this. This is not play for the occasional player.

But I will say I enjoyed today! :)

Mar 28

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Mar 17

A fellow Flirt who is not worthy of recognition, became obsessed with my listings on Niteflirt. I had noticed that in the forum she would give the other Phone Mistresses hell, especially the ones more higher rated than her’s. I posted on forum to ask about free blogs for PSOs, she teared into me big time and told me I was against TOS etc etc. She was completely rude. Before I could fix my listings, she had reported me to Niteflirt’s Playfair. My listings were pulled and needed editing. I would do what Niteflirt asked but she kept reporting every single thing she could.

A couple weeks ago, I tried to sign to Niteflirt and I couldnt. I find Niteflirt’s dear John letter in my email. It didnt matter that I had been with them for seven years. It didnt matter that I had made them lots of money. It didnt matter that I was rated 16th highest rated Mistress. I was devastated. All my hard work thrown away just like that. Outside of Prodomming, this was my biggest source of income. Thank goodness I dont have a family to support!

For days I mourned and was very depressed. I didnt know what to do. Then it hit me. I went back to Donald Trump’s Book, “Think Big and Kick Ass!”. Chapter six is titled, “Revenge”. on page 186 he says.”When somebody hits you, hit’em back harder!

I have no issues with Niteflirt, they were trying to do their job. I do wish they were more understanding though. My beef is with this PSO. Im not resorting to childish games. I plan on proving once again that I am one of the best Phone Mistresses out there. That Bitch made a big mistake. I am more fired up now than I was before! I have big plans ahead. I will keep you posted.

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Mar 17

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I just got back from a awesome trip to DC! I went there for two reasons. One to have fun sessions and two, SHOP!

I had four sessions scheduled but only two showed up. I was not shocked. Alas, the ones who stood me up were put on my BAD BOY list! Anyone who stands me up gets listed there. They will have to pay a high deposit to ever see me.

One of my sweet subs brought me a box of Godiva Dark Chocolate Truffles which were Divine. Funny enough, another sub spoke of a story about a psycho who made some disgusting soap made with his urine and he dipped it in Godiva Chocolate and put it in a fancy box with ribbons and presented it to his dinner date. She bit into it and was obviously disgusted by the taste but yet ate the whole thing because she didnt want to be rude. The psycho gets off on this and is wanking under the table. This has stuck in this sub’s mind all this time. So I was happy to offer him a truffle. It was amusing to watch him bite into it hesitantly then smile when it was rich and delicious.

I had a wonderful time shopping at the Crucible’s Leather Flea Market. My best buy was a leather pig hood with snap on eye covers and a zipper on the mouth. Its perfect for my Humiliation sluts! I got a beautiful burgandy dragontail from Dragontails. After a little practice, I felt very comfortble using it. Rainbow Rope sells medical play supplies and I picked up Proctoscope and some 22g needles. I also got some sterile lube for my sounds kit.

At Details, I discovered that a friend of mine has taken over the business. I got a nice braided flogger, a paddle with SLUT on it and a singletail with spray of tails on the end.

I got some smaller odds and ends I left the Fleamarket satisfied but poorer..lol

I went to the Crucible’s play party and enjoyed the company of James and Danny. I did not bring my toy bag to the party but I still gave a young sub a good spanking! It was great seeing old friends and making new ones too.

I did not go to bed until 4 am and was out of the hotel by 10 am. I slept for most of the ride back to Chester then drove back to Durham.

I am looking forward going to DC again next weekend!

Mar 1

By Steve Williams
On Friday, lawyers in the Perry v. Schwarzenegger Proposition 8 trial submitted their case summaries as per Judge Vaughn Walker’s request. Both sides are said to have included their most hard-hitting points, including a claim from the Proposition 8 defense that bisexuals in particular constitute a threat to marriage.

Firstly, for the plaintiffs seeking to overturn Proposition 8, California’s 2008 gay marriage ban, lawyers David Boies and Theodore Olson submitted a document in excess of 290 pages, aiming to prove that Proposition 8 is unconstitutional. From the American Foundation for Equal Rights:

“This 294-page filing is only a summary of the overwhelming evidence against Proposition 8,” said Chad Griffin, Board President of the American Foundation for Equal Rights. “The evidence proves beyond a doubt that Proposition 8, which separates Americans into unequal groups, violates the U.S. Constitution and causes incredible harm to individuals and our nation as a whole.”

The document outlines the following as the core of the plaintiff’s case:

Prop. 8 does irreparable harm to Americans
Marriage has shed discriminatory restrictions over time
Gay men and lesbians are entitled to the full protection of the 14th Amendment
There is no good reason for Prop. 8’s denial of fundamental civil rights

The summary also points out the unequal weight of testimony provided in the case. The plaintiffs in the Perry v. Schwarzenegger trial called on 16 witnesses (including Paul Katami & Jeff Zarrillo and Kris Perry & Sandy Stier, the couples who filed the original lawsuit) whereas the defendant-intervenors Protect Marriage were only able to present two witnesses after their other four dropped out ahead of the trail, claiming that they were likely to face intimidation for their stance against gay marriage.

According to the American Foundation for Equal Rights, the summary presented by the plaintiffs also points to the fact that, during several occasions during the trial, the two remaining defense witnesses - both of whom had their status as “experts” put in question - appeared to make the case for marriage equality in spite of their apparent stance against it:

In addition to outlining the evidence presented by Olson and Boies, the document outlines the devastating admissions made by the defendant-intervenors’ witnesses that further proved our case and undermined the Proponents’; those witnesses’ lack of credentials; and evidence on the utilization of messages of pedophilia, polygamy, incest and bestiality in support of Prop. 8.

You can access the full document by going here.

Like so much of the pro-Proposition 8 side’s material, tracking down a copy of their summary for public viewing is proving difficult (if you have come across the text, please let me know).

However, reports suggest that the pro-Prop. 8 side have not included much of their witness testimony in their summary, at least not for supporting their central argument, and have instead cited research documents that, they assert, prove that “extending marriage to same-sex couples would result in a profound change to the definition, structure, and public meaning of marriage.”

However, calling on the testimony of Professor Miller, their first witness, they advance that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people do not constitute a protected class worthy of judicial intervention, and that LGBTs have political allies and sufficient political power so as not to be classed as a vulnerable group.

Using their other witness testimony provided by David Blankenhorn, the pro-Prop. 8 side are said to have reinforced that marriage hinges on gender roles of “maleness and femaleness” and that procreation is a key element to marriage. Therein, they argue that child rearing is best served by the heteronormative family unit and that this fact means that marriage must, by necessity, exclude same-sex couples.

Perhaps one of their most startling maneuvers in the defense’s summary is where they are reported to have singled out bisexual people as one of the reasons to deny same-sex couples marriage rights:

The potential harms they cited included giving bisexuals a legal basis for pursuing group marriages and unmarried fathers an incentive to abandon their children.

While a copy of the summary text itself has not been forthcoming, text from the defendant-intervenors’ original trial brief also includes this argument:

[Allowing same-sex marriage would] increase the likelihood that bisexual orientation could become a legitimate grounding for a legal entitlement to group marriage.

They did not stress this point in the trial any more than the rest of their slippery slope polygamy arguments, but it is interesting that they have returned to it here.

Under California law, “Only the marriage of a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California” as per Proposition 8 and this, the defense say, guards against the much maligned “group marriage.”

The argument goes that, should same-sex marriage be legalized once again in California, there would be a potential legal basis for a bisexual person to seek recognition for a marriage to both a male and female spouse (one man and one woman) at the same time, leading to a multi-partner marriage.

As far as I can see it, this argument is flawed as California marriage laws clearly state that you can’t enter into marriage while still married to another adult. From the California Department of Public Health website:

“To marry in California, the two parties may not be already married to each other or other individuals.”

Amending civil marriage laws to include same-sex partners does not overturn this aspect of the family code.

However, the defense appear to be arguing that once you grant equal access to marriage for same-sex couples, the next logical and inevitable step is granting multi-partner marriage, and that bisexuals would be the gateway for this.

This relies on the assumption that a bisexual would want more than one spouse because of their attraction to both sexes, and seems to infer that bisexuals are less capable of monogamy than heterosexuals, which is actually broadly offensive and blurs the line between sexuality and the useful social convention of monogamy to an extreme.

It will be interesting to see if the pro-Proposition 8 side revisit this argument as part of their closing statement, which, although as yet unscheduled, is likely to be heard in the next few months.

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Oct 21

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Sitting Back and enjoying the Morning!

Its 7 am and I am just getting ready for bed. I swear there is a internal instinct in me that is purely nocturnal. Lately I have been going to bed right before the sun comes up and waking up as it becomes dark. Probably not healthy, but its what feels right of late. Its not really new and my Dad has been known to do it too. When I was 5, he would let me stay up and watch Shock Theatre. Even then, I would rather see someones head cut off than watch Saturday morning cartoons. A Little Goth..maybe…devil spawn..maybe…a little crazy..sometimes..Some of my more scarier traits I got from Dad. Dont blame me, blame him! Growing up there were many times that I hated him. Mostly when he was right. As I have gotten older, my relationship with my dad has vastly improved. I realize he wasnt as dumb as I thought. He knew the real horrors out there and he was trying to protect me. I am hard headed and stubborn so I had to find out for myself. I have learned some very painful lessons but at least I learned from them.

Im sitting here with my coke zero, surveying my house. I see what needs to be done. Yet I see how great it looks too. The house has been transformed over the last two months. The bug problem is gone. My rooms are organized and put away. (SW the dishes are still waiting for you!) The pillows that Looney got me look great! My Altar is dusted and set how I want it. My Playroom is immaculate and very organized too. Im saving up for some new couches.

I also want to decorate my porch and yard for Halloween and Fall. My lone pumpkin is lonely! It needs many more pumpkin companions! Some lush Mums too. Maybe some gourds too. Yeah, you see where this is going.

I wonder if my dark angel and sweet SW are up yet…

Good Morning to All!

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