Aug 22

There is not a week that goes by that I do not get a sub asking me to be his Mistress. Understand its takes more than being able to take pain or licking my pussy for hours.

To be a good phone submissive, be able to communicate your needs and desires well. I am a Amazing Mistress but I am not a mind reader. Also tell me if you have big turnoffs. With that being said, I will then know how I wish to direct your training. Be very eager to please me. OBEY! Do not cum without my permission! I will use you well! When your phone training session is done, Thank your Mistress. Then leave me great written feedback. I like for my subs to call at least once weekly but more is encouraged.

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Are you curious about what I require from my Lifestyle submissives?
First and foremost, they need to be trustwothy. Never lie to me. A personal submissive is responsible for serving me and caring for everything I own. I need to be able to trust you with my home if I am away. Lying and stealing is punished with prompt dismissal. I have zero tolerance for it.

Trust is the Foundation for any healthy relationship.

A personal submissive should very eager to please. For him its a need. Be quick to do whatever I ask of you. Making me smile gives you pure bliss.

You must be a obedient. What I order becomes a law for you. Disobey and you will be punished. Obey and please me, you may get rewarded.

You must need structure. I will bring structure to your chaotic life. I will know your daily routine intimately. I will become the center of your Universe. I will not take away your time for work, family, friends or your spiritual faith. The rest I will control.

A potential submissive must be single. I do not allow married men to serve me personally. If you lie to your wife, you can lie to me. The same goes for girlfriends too.

A good submissive should be devoted. When you are being trained by me, you serve no other. If I find out you are serving another Mistress, you will be instantly dismissed. I invest a lot of time and effort into my personal submissives. If you cannot give 100%, why should I?

You must have time to serve me. Starting out, I will train you once weekly but as we progress, I will want to see you more often. Eventually, I will want you to serve me daily. If you do not have the time, do not waste my time!

I do prefer masochists or subs who enjoy taking pain. I am really a Erotic Sadist. I enjoy increasing the pain threshold of my subs. If you have seen my list of BDSM Interests, you know I am very experienced in wide variety of torture and Fetishes. Yes, I really do what I list!

A good submissive should be gainfully employed. If you dream of being a 24/7 house slave, then we are not a good fit. I am not a Sugar Momma! If I choose to train you, you will contribute to the household. Especially if you live with me. I am a Queen and I love being spoiled. If you do not like to spoil your Mistress, we are not a good fit.

I enjoy Chastity Training for my personal submissives. It is a very effective training tool. If you cannot handle it, we are not a good fit.

Long Distance subs are OK but hard to train well. I will not relocate to your home. You will come to me.

You must love cats! I own 5 amazing cats and I consider them family, Hurt them and I will come after your ass!

I am naturally Nocturnal. That means I am up all night and sleep most of the day. I am pretty goth minus the black hair in many ways. lol I have tried to become a day walker so many times and it never lasts.

I am Wiccan and you need to be OK with that. Yes, I am a Goddess Worshipper! That does not mean that I will try to convert you but you do need to be supportive.

There must be a “connection” between us. Otherwise are just going through the motions. If we connect, it will happen naturally.

Last but not least, your must be comfortable with me being Professional Dominatrix and Phone Mistress. My work is a passion of mine. I love what I do. Except if you are a millionare, I plan of doing my work until I am too old to do it anymore. If you cannot handle that, do not

That about sums it up. If you have any questions, you may comment here or message me privately.

In Leather, In Link,
Mistress Eva Lordes
www.MistressEvaLordes.com
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Mar 17

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I just got back from a awesome trip to DC! I went there for two reasons. One to have fun sessions and two, SHOP!

I had four sessions scheduled but only two showed up. I was not shocked. Alas, the ones who stood me up were put on my BAD BOY list! Anyone who stands me up gets listed there. They will have to pay a high deposit to ever see me.

One of my sweet subs brought me a box of Godiva Dark Chocolate Truffles which were Divine. Funny enough, another sub spoke of a story about a psycho who made some disgusting soap made with his urine and he dipped it in Godiva Chocolate and put it in a fancy box with ribbons and presented it to his dinner date. She bit into it and was obviously disgusted by the taste but yet ate the whole thing because she didnt want to be rude. The psycho gets off on this and is wanking under the table. This has stuck in this sub’s mind all this time. So I was happy to offer him a truffle. It was amusing to watch him bite into it hesitantly then smile when it was rich and delicious.

I had a wonderful time shopping at the Crucible’s Leather Flea Market. My best buy was a leather pig hood with snap on eye covers and a zipper on the mouth. Its perfect for my Humiliation sluts! I got a beautiful burgandy dragontail from Dragontails. After a little practice, I felt very comfortble using it. Rainbow Rope sells medical play supplies and I picked up Proctoscope and some 22g needles. I also got some sterile lube for my sounds kit.

At Details, I discovered that a friend of mine has taken over the business. I got a nice braided flogger, a paddle with SLUT on it and a singletail with spray of tails on the end.

I got some smaller odds and ends I left the Fleamarket satisfied but poorer..lol

I went to the Crucible’s play party and enjoyed the company of James and Danny. I did not bring my toy bag to the party but I still gave a young sub a good spanking! It was great seeing old friends and making new ones too.

I did not go to bed until 4 am and was out of the hotel by 10 am. I slept for most of the ride back to Chester then drove back to Durham.

I am looking forward going to DC again next weekend!

Feb 25


I laughed my ass off!
Hope you do too!

Mistress Eva

Oct 5

I’ve had several recent calls lately that made me decide to discuss communication. First off understand that no one is a mind reader! No one is going to know your wants and needs if you do not communicate them well. Even more importantly, do you really know what your wants and needs are?

I want you to get a paper and pen and make a line down the center of the paper. On one side you will list your wants and the other side, your needs. This could be for romantic relationships, friendships, family or coworkers. Carefully think about what you cant live without. Like air, food, water, and shelter. These are what you require to live day to day.

Now list things you want. Like lots of love and affection, time set aside for the two of you, a meal cooked for you every night, etc. You will find you have many more wants than needs. Then look at your wants and be realistic. Are they fair to ask from your partner, friend or etc.? I want a million dollars but I think its unrealistic to ask that from anyone.

Ideally, you can ask your partner to list their wants and needs too. Sit down and really listen to what they are saying. Allow as much time its takes for both sides to communicate openly and honestly about their wants and needs. Work together to see that each others needs are met.

What if theres not enough time for the person to satisfy your wants and needs? Work, School, and Kids can make it hard. Needs must have time made for, but wants on the other hand might mean comprimises and sacrifices need to be made. You and your partner need to decide how to make wants happen. The key is to work together for a positive outcome.

Mistress Eva Lordes

Mar 17

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Dont you just love this PIC! OK my eyes are Green so no pinching! I have no green clothes at all! That’s ok, I plan on finding a Irish Pub near by and getting very drunk!

(On a side note, I have a fetish for Irish men! They are hot in the sack!)

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Mar 17

Below is a list of D/s (BDSM) activities that you may find helpful in guiding your servitude. This is a list meant to be filled out by you the submissive, for MY use.
Col 1-Answer YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
Col 2-For each YES indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity.
Scale of 0 to 5. A zero means you did not like that activity but you are willing to do it to please me. 5 means the activity is a wild turn-on. D/k means I don’t know what this activity is and need a definition. N/a means “not sure I am willing to share this activity at this time.”
Col 3-If you have never done this activity before (answered NO), use the 3rd column to indicate if this is an activity you want to explore/try. Answer YES, NO or Not Yet next to each item to indicate if you wish to try the activity, not try the activity or not try the activity yet but open to try in the future.
Col 4-For each YES or NOT Yet, indicate for each item how you FEEL about exploring that activity by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5. A zero means you are willing to explore this activity to please me. 5 means the activity is something you are dying to try, other numbers indicating some level in between those two.

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Mar 16

I want you to surrender to me. Allow me to control your mind, body and soul. Worship the Superior Woman before you! Obey all my commands! Kneel on the ground like my eager pet, a toy for my amusement! If deemed worthy, you may get to worship my perfect round ass!

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Nov 13

I’m a Goddess Worshipper, a Wiccan Witch, I celebrate the Divine Feminine in all its many forms. I feel powerful women are a conduit for the submissive male to connect with the Goddess. Goddesses have many Archetypes. The Giver of Live, The Lover, Wisdom, The Virgin, The Mother, The Crone. She also has a more darker side. The Goddess of War and Wrath. Her lover and Consort represents the Hunt and Death. Complete polar opposites but still very much ying and yang.

I prefer to play in the middle. I am the Archetype of the Giver of Pain and Pleasure. With Nuturing arms I provide structure and control to ones who dare to be my slave.

As The Dominatrix, I celebrate Female Supremacy and give complete Dominance to ones who humbly Tribute Me. I am your fantasy! I use all my skills to Transform you into my pet for a hour or two before bringing you back to reality

As a Phone Domina, my voice and words will weave a spell over you. You know you cannot resist me. My Southern Accent will become your best addiction!

As the Cruel Humiliatrix, I tear away all your walls and reduce you to a groveling piece of flesh. A play thing for my amusement. When your soul begs, I will strip away your masculinity and sissify you. Become my Lesbian lover.

I am your Strap On Goddess. Worship My Supremacy with all your holes until I milkyou dry.

As a Sadist, I will give you the gift of sweet agony and what lays beyond. Your pain will give me such pleasure. My Instruments of pain are very much the Instruments I Use to Worship the Goddess. Sex is one of the Goddess’s Rituals. Its no longer a sin or considered dirty.

I am the Mistress who embraces you after she has taken you to Subspace. Pushed to your limits so you can fly. Totally exposed and vulnerable, I kiss away your tears. I hold you until you are strong again. Strong enough to serve me with your Mind, Body, Heart and Soul.

I am your Fetish. Every inch of me deserves Worship along with what I adorn myself with. I am the Seductress who wears Leather, Lace, Latex and PVC to make your cock throb. I will control your cock, I will control you.

Yes, I am what you see when you Surrender. In complete love and trust, you become mine.

I am a Artist of Flesh and Spirit. I will mold and polish you like a rare diamond. You will shine bright, my dear slave.

Do you take my dare? I dare you to come to me. My Voice has weakened many men. Are you ready to submit to your Goddess? Come to me as you were born, naked and helpless. I will take care of the rest…


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Nov 13

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