Sep 5

Michael Arrington

Bad news for Craigslist users who like to peruse the Erotic Services Adult Services section of their site. It’s gone, replaced by a large black and white “censored” logo.

I’ve reached out to Craigslist for comment and await their reply. But the choice of words is significant – the section wasn’t simply removed, the censored word was used.

The site has been embattled as old press and state attorneys general use any excuse to blame sex crimes on the site. From South Carolina Attorney General Henry McMaster’s failed crusade against them to a variety of press stories about sex and other crimes. If it’s just a sex crime it isn’t a story. But if a listing on Craigslist was involved, it’s a big story.

Craigslist has fought back using little more than their blog and logic. And they’re right. Having prostitution up front and regulated, as Craigslist does, means less crime is associated with it. It’s not like prostitution, sometimes called the world’s oldest profession, was invented on the site.

The fact that eBay and others do exactly the same thing, but without human review and moderation, doesn’t seem to matter. Craigslist Sex is what scares the general population, and it’s what the press and the politicians will continue to use to get their hits and votes.

So the Craigslist Adult Section was removed. Is the world now a safer place?

Update: This only appears to affect U.S. sites, so if you’re looking for a happy ending in Saskatoon or the West Bank, have at it.

http://techcrunch.com/2010/09/03/craigslist-censored-adult-section-comes-down/

Mistress Eva says: This is a sad day for many of my Craigslist hoes! There is no telling how many of my sluts wanked to those ads let alone met the Female and Male escorts. I know many of my sissy bitches had fantasies of making me money through that site.

They say prostitution is the oldest profession in the world. It has thrived for a long time and a another site will take off where Craigslist finished. For Craigslist, it was a multimillion business so you know there are people ready to capitalize on this censorship.

To my cock whores…The Casual Encounters Section is going strong! ;-)

Aug 26

Despite recession, good time for sex toy industry: Amazon, Brooklyn’s
Shag sales on the rise!

http://www.womenshealthmag.com/files/images/0807-reasons-sex.jpg

BY Joe Jackson
DAILY NEWS WRITER
The Dow may be down, but the sex toy industry is heating up online and
in store. From Web behemoth Amazon to Brooklyn boutique store Shag,
sales of an increasing range of sexual accessories are on the rise.

“Everyone says thank God you opened - it’s about time,” said Sam Bard,
36, who co-founded Shag in Williamsburg last December.

“Each month’s been better than the last,” she said.

The “sexy shop” sells everything from vintage handcuffs to body paints
and hosts sex-themed events like “introductory lessons in rope-bondage.”

Bard believes the recession helped the business, which opened on
Roebling St. for rent considered low for the gentrified neighborhood.

“More couples are staying at home to save money, so rather [than]
spending $150 on a one-time dinner, they will spend the same amount
for toys that will continue to be used indefinitely,” she said.

Customers agree. “The expense of the toys is so insignificant compared
to the growth of the relationship sexually,” said Heather, 40, who
admits that even though she’s on a tight budget, she and her boyfriend
laid down $150 on a “his and her” vibrator.

Sex accessories store Babeland, which has three outlets in the city,
makes half of its sales online. It recorded an 18% spike in Web
visitors and a 13% jump in sales in 2009.

“New Yorkers account for the biggest percentage of our online sales,”
said spokeswoman Pamela Doan.

Meanwhile, even household company names are getting in on the action.
Amazon launched its Sexual Wellness page in 2003 with 338 items,
mainly condoms and lubricants. But it soon began to market more
adventurous items - restraints, vibrators and flavored lubricants.

“We’ve seen this category grow pretty significantly over the last
couple of years,” said spokeswoman Charmaine Diploa. Now the company
stocks nearly 60,000 items, with adult toys and games being the
biggest share.

A recent week’s best-selling item was the “Magic Wand Massager” - a
nonphallic vibrator - and “Doc Johnson Lucid Dream #5″ - a multispeed
waterproof stimulator.

Amazon reckons its sales surge is due to its discretion - and unique
brand of convenience.

“Customers receive an Amazon box and no one needs to know what’s
inside except for that customer,” said Diploa. “And they love the fact
they can purchase a vibrator, a watch and a Kindle all in one place.”

(Mistress Eva says, There will always be death taxes and SEX! Until the human race ends, SEX will sell. Ironically, my Phone Domination/Phone Sex Business is doing well considering we are in a Recession. August was one of my busiest months! Now maybe I should sell sex toys too!)

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Aug 3

America Wins, Government Loses Huge Obscenity Trial
by Marty Klein

John Stagliano was set free last week when a federal judge ended his obscenity trial on procedural grounds. If convicted, John would have been jailed for 32 years and had his home and business confiscated.

Instead, a few million dollars of your tax money was wasted by a Department of Justice investigation, purchase, viewing, and indictment of Milk Nymphos, Storm Squirters, and Fetish Fanatic. These are DVDs that depict legal activity, whose actors are all certified as over 18. Neither of these facts was challenged by the government.

The charge was simply that the DVDs appealed to the average person’s “prurient interest,” were “patently offensive,” and “lack serious literary, artistic, political, or scientific value.” These are the actual words of the Miller Test that guide the law. If you can get a jury to agree that a given recording, painting, book, DVD, or stage show meets these three tests, the government can declare the thing “obscene.” It then loses its First Amendment protection, and it creator and distributor can be sent to jail.

That’s right—the depiction of a legal activity can be illegal. Sex is so special, that we’re not allowed to see or hear about things that we’re allowed to do. I don’t know why more people are outraged about this.

The first consideration—“prurient interest”—is not only archaic (do you know what “prurient” means?), it’s completely subjective. How are people supposed to judge whether a film or song appeals to their neighbors’ healthy or unhealthy interest in sex?

The second consideration—“patently offensive”—is equally subjective. Along with “prurient interest,” this is a bizarre standard of lawfulness. If being “offensive” is illegal, there are some Congressmembers who shouldn’t be allowed to wear shorts in public. And Joan Rivers should be executed immediately.

The third consideration—“lacks value”—elevates the personal opinions of a dozen random people to god-like status (especially if you’re the defendant), and begs for carloads of experts. Is Milk Nymphos satire? An indictment of sexist prohibitions against breast-feeding in public? A documentation of creative use of enemas, or associated paraphilias?

When the Supreme Court first described the Miller Test in 1973, it was intended to codify the chaotic state of American censorship at that time. But it is shockingly subjective. It asks a jury of lay people to discern what their neighbors think about sex—a subject about which people are notoriously shy discussing seriously.

And so here was John Stagliano, in the year 2010—a year in which the planet is melting, and the Taliban wants to destroy our country, and millions of Americans have lost their jobs and are losing their homes—here was John Stagliano on trial in federal court for producing and selling adult videos to adults. Not one single customer had complained. The government had decided to go after him.

After an 18-month investigation, months of trial preparation, and days of courtroom activity, Judge Richard J. Leon, appointed by President George W. Bush, threw the case out on procedural grounds. The government’s star witness and the government’s lead prosecutor couldn’t get their stories straight. They indirectly raised the question of the judge’s own ethics, a question the judge firmly denounced.

I’m thrilled that John walks free, because he clearly did nothing wrong. But I’m disappointed that the jury did not get a chance to rule the DVDs not obscene. Judge Leon’s decision demands that the government do a more thorough, professional job when censoring what we can watch in the privacy of our homes. I wish instead he had told the government to stay out of our homes and our bedrooms. I wish the jury had had a chance to say the same.

Instead, people like John Stagliano—yes, who are in it for the money, not for public service— will have to risk everything so we can enjoy the American freedoms we take for granted. Next time you watch a porn video, or The Daily Show or a violent video game, next time you listen to a rap music on a CD or at a concert, give silent thanks to John. He almost went to jail for you and me.

Source: Carnal Nation (http://clp.ly/118JO)

Jul 12

Craigslist Projected To Earn $36 Million This Year From Adult Ads

By Matthew Lawrence

Experts predict that popular classified site Craigslist will earn $36
million this year from adult services ads, three times the 2009 profit
from adult ads. Based out of an unassuming San Francisco storefront,
the company’s known for allowing users to find jobs, rent apartments,
and write creepy letters to Whole Foods employees; it’s also predicted
to bring in $122 million this year, a 22% increase from 2009, reports
the New York Times [1].

In nineteen major American cities, users must pay to post job
listings, and New Yorkers must also pay for real estate listings. But
adult ads now cost $10 each ($5 for repeat postings) in all 438 of the
site’s US markets. And that adds up to big profits.

James Buckmaster, Craigslist CEO, said he would not confirm the
numbers because the traditionally secretive company does not discuss
its finances publicly. (The revenue estimate was released by industry
analysts independent Advanced Interactive Media Group.) Initially,
Craigslist committed to donate profits from sex ads to charity but
reversed its decision last May, declining from then on to acknowledge
where the money goes. The company also decided last May to raise the
price for adult services ads from $5 to $10.

The AIM group estimated that the site’s expenses–salaries, servers,
bandwidth and legal fees–will cost under $50 million this year,
meaning that the company could see a $70 million profit in 2010. Mr.
Buckmaster responded to the Times via e-mail:

Of the sex ads, he wrote, “Of the thousands of U.S. venues that carry
adult service ads, including venues operated by some of the largest
and best known companies in the U.S., Craigslist has done the best and
most responsible job of combating child exploitation and human
trafficking.”

From www.nytimes.com [2] via clp.ly [2]
The company has started two non-profits. The Craigslist Foundation,
which received $648,000 in 2008, does not make any donations. But the
newer Craigslist Charitable Trust, which was started in 2008 by Mr.
Buckmaster and site founder Craig Newmark, is even more of a mystery;
Mr. Buckmaster refused to explain the trust’s purpose to the Times.

In 2008, after much criticism, Craigslist eliminated the “erotic
services” section and replaced it with the “adult services” category.
In order to post ads now, users must have a registered account, which
requires e-mail verification and a phone number. (The system is
totally faulty, though, because people change phone numbers fairly
regularly these days and plenty of people can’t create accounts
because previous people with that number–or household members who
share a landline–can’t post ads.)Craigslist Projected To Earn $36 Million This Year From Adult Ads

By Matthew Lawrence
Created 04/26/2010 - 7:29am
Experts predict that popular classified site Craigslist will earn $36
million this year from adult services ads, three times the 2009 profit
from adult ads. Based out of an unassuming San Francisco storefront,
the company’s known for allowing users to find jobs, rent apartments,
and write creepy letters to Whole Foods employees; it’s also predicted
to bring in $122 million this year, a 22% increase from 2009, reports
the New York Times [1].

In nineteen major American cities, users must pay to post job
listings, and New Yorkers must also pay for real estate listings. But
adult ads now cost $10 each ($5 for repeat postings) in all 438 of the
site’s US markets. And that adds up to big profits.

James Buckmaster, Craigslist CEO, said he would not confirm the
numbers because the traditionally secretive company does not discuss
its finances publicly. (The revenue estimate was released by industry
analysts independent Advanced Interactive Media Group.) Initially,
Craigslist committed to donate profits from sex ads to charity but
reversed its decision last May, declining from then on to acknowledge
where the money goes. The company also decided last May to raise the
price for adult services ads from $5 to $10.

The AIM group estimated that the site’s expenses–salaries, servers,
bandwidth and legal fees–will cost under $50 million this year,
meaning that the company could see a $70 million profit in 2010. Mr.
Buckmaster responded to the Times via e-mail:

Of the sex ads, he wrote, “Of the thousands of U.S. venues that carry
adult service ads, including venues operated by some of the largest
and best known companies in the U.S., Craigslist has done the best and
most responsible job of combating child exploitation and human
trafficking.”

From www.nytimes.com [2] via clp.ly [2]
The company has started two non-profits. The Craigslist Foundation,
which received $648,000 in 2008, does not make any donations. But the
newer Craigslist Charitable Trust, which was started in 2008 by Mr.
Buckmaster and site founder Craig Newmark, is even more of a mystery;
Mr. Buckmaster refused to explain the trust’s purpose to the Times.

In 2008, after much criticism, Craigslist eliminated the “erotic
services” section and replaced it with the “adult services” category.
In order to post ads now, users must have a registered account, which
requires e-mail verification and a phone number. (The system is
totally faulty, though, because people change phone numbers fairly
regularly these days and plenty of people can’t create accounts
because previous people with that number–or household members who
share a landline–can’t post ads.)

Jul 1

BDSM, once viewed as the exclusive fiefdom of really creepy perverts, has crossed over and become quasi-respectable, stylish and safe.

It’s just another day at The Armory in San Francisco: A bound and naked woman is laid out on a stylish serving table. Elegantly-dressed people of both sexes gather around—enjoying the view, apparently—and take turns having their way with her. Various devices are deployed—dildos, floggers, electrical stimulators. She says “Thank you, sir” and “Thank you, madam” frequently.

Welcome to “The Upper Floor,” a high-definition Internet reality show where, website copy states, “real submissive women and real submissive men become house slaves to be dominated, trained, punished, spanked, whipped, and fucked … Inspired by the legendary French BDSM erotic novel The Story of O, The Upper Floor illustrates real lifestyle BDSM as it is lived by 24/7 slaves and Masters, complete with … explicit sex in bondage, punishment, erotic humiliation, and more.”

The Upper Floor is a project of Kink.com, a thriving pornography business that was founded by Peter Acworth, a British-born entrepreneur and lifelong aficionado of BDSM (for Bondage, Domination, Submission—or Sadism—and Masochism). Kink.com sells subscriptions to websites with names like Hogtied.com, SexandSubmission.com and, yes, TheUpperFloor.com. Acworth often attends these, er, corporate events. “He’s the master of the house,” says colleague John Sander.

Only in Satan’s City by the Bay, right? Not exactly. Acworth was recently invited to speak at a summit on innovation convened by the ever-so-respectable The Economist. That’s right—the king of kink was given a place on the dais alongside a Harvard Business School professor, an Intuit business executive and other decent folk. Whether you view this as the end of civilization or a sign of progress, one thing is sure: a barrier has come down.

BDSM is all over our entertainment media, too. In her latest music video, Christina Aguilera slaps a riding crop against her palm, laps from a cat dish, and sports a rhinestone-studded ball gag. In movies like the 2005 comedy hit The Wedding Crashers and television shows like the self-consciously low-brow mockumentary RENO 911!, kinky scenes are played for laughs.

The lesson, kiddies? BDSM, once viewed as the exclusive fiefdom of really creepy perverts, has crossed over and become quasi-respectable, stylish and safe. Comical, even!

The shifting public perception of BDSM is one of those seeming overnight changes that was centuries in the making. In the late 18th Century, the Marquis de Sade put his profoundly sick-puppy stamp on kink, firmly establishing it as sex play (sex pain, really) between non-consenting adults. A hundred years later, when psychologists started studying this behavior, they found their subjects in insane asylums. “Criminals were their point of reference,” says Denver-based sex therapist Neil Cannon. No wonder, then, that BDSM meant a brute in a basement with an unwilling woman and a whip.

CLICK HERE FOR THE REST OF THE ARTICLE!

Mistree Eva Says: I personally do not like this trend. I liked it when BDSM was Dark, Mysterious and forbidden. Alas, its still Taboo enough hat you don’t want vanilla friends, family and coworkers knowing that you are into BDSM. If you are not “out”, you still have to be careful with your kinky PICS and your scene names. So its still Taboo on many levels!

Jun 29

For X-Rated, a Domain of Their Own

By MIGUEL HELFT

SAN FRANCISCO — What if the Web held a sex party and no one showed up?

That’s what could happen now that the agency governing the Internet
address system all but approved the creation of a new red-light
district on the Web. The problem is that some of the biggest names in
online pornography prefer not to be in that neighborhood.

The Internet Corporation for Assigned Names and Numbers on Friday
agreed to move forward on a long-standing proposal from a Florida
company to create a specialized dot-xxx suffix for adult entertainment
Web sites. But the plan upset much of the adult entertainment
industry. It joined hands with religious groups in lobbying against
it, arguing that the new domains would lead to regulation and
marginalization.

The alliance “made for strange bedfellows, for sure,” said Diane Duke,
executive director of the Free Speech Coalition, a trade association
representing more than 1,000 adult entertainment businesses. The
company sponsoring the dot-xxx domain, the ICM Registry, said it had a
vision of a red-light district in cyberspace that was a clean, well-
lighted place, free of spam, viruses and credit card thieves. Content
would be clearly labeled as adult and the whole neighborhood would be
easy to block. Anyone offended by pornography could simply stay out.

“It is good for everybody,” said Stuart Lawley, the chairman and chief
executive of ICM. “It is a win for the consumer of adult content. They
will know that the dot-xxx sites will operate by certain standards.”

That did not satisfy religious groups that opposed the dot-xxx
domains, fearing they would make pornography even more prevalent
online. And Ms. Duke said that “there is no support from our
community” for the plan.

Her organization’s members, which include big industry names like
Hustler and Adam & Eve, were concerned that the board overseeing the
dot-xxx domain could engage in censorship and that the entire industry
could come under increased regulation. “If the board doesn’t like what
a producer creates, there is the possibility that they could censor
it,” Ms. Duke said. “This will ghettoize our industry and make us a
target of regulation.”

Ms. Duke said most of her members planned to continue operating out of
their dot-com domains.

But Mr. Lawley is not worried. Online sex is big business, and he
expects his company will benefit. Each domain registration will cost
$60 a year, with $10 going to a nonprofit organization promoting
“responsible business practices” for the industry.

Mr. Lawley said more than 100,000 domains had preregistered. He said
he expected that when the dot-xxx domains opened for business, nine to
12 months from now, some 500,000 domains would register, or roughly 10
percent of the five million to six million adult online sites.

But Ms. Duke said many of those were likely to be “defensive”
registrations, from businesses that wanted to prevent their names from
being hijacked. Mr. Lawley said businesses could ensure that their
names were not misused in the dot-xxx world by paying a one-time fee,
to be set from $50 to $250.

In giving ICM’s proposal the green light in a meeting in Brussels, the
Internet Corporation for Assigned Names and Numbers, which governs
Internet addresses, reversed a 2007 vote to reject the dot-xxx
domains, saying the decision was purely based on technical grounds.
Peter Dengate Thrush, the agency’s chairman, said it had no interest
or stake in the content of Web sites.

“The applicants believe that this will allow people to filter
pornography more effectively,” he said. “If they do that and it works,
that’s great for them. But that’s not part of our issue.”

The agency now has to negotiate a final contract with ICM. Ms. Duke’s
organization plans to continue its fight against the dot-xxx domains.

Mistress Eva Says: This means I will have to pay for their stupid domains just so no one steals my name. Its nuts! I plan on keeping my .com sites!

Jun 20

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Mistress Eva: OK my cum drinking sluts! 61 pages of Cum Recipes! Prepare a dish and call me! You know you want to!

Jun 12

http://www.sunpostweekly.com/2010/06/03/sacred-sex/

Sacred Sex

[ 0 ] June 3, 2010 | Dr. Sonjia
Does religion influence your sex life?

If so, you’re nothing like the Miamians I asked, each of whom assured
me that the church buts out of their bedroom. Don’t misunderstand
the situation because I didn’t speak to any atheists and all admitted
they attended services (at least on holidays) at their church, mosque,
or temple. Despite attempts to stay in the good graces of God, most
also admitted to contradicting renowned religious rules by doing the
deed premaritally, praying to prevent procreation. But is it really
rationale for religion to reject the righteous ritual of lovers
lusting to learn?

The Baptist, Catholic, Hindu, Islamic, Jewish, Methodist and Mormon
religions all frown, if not forbid, sex outside of marriage.
Buddhism blesses sex if the persons involved believe it’s for the
right reasons, and some reform branches of Judaism are also lifting
the guilt on committed couples shacking up. But you better wait for
wedding bells if you’re a member of the other religions because sex
among singles is still considered sinful. So how’s that working out?

The idea of amorous activity among adolescents was absolutely absurd
to the nuns ruling the all-girls high school I attended so sex
education was never administered and one of my closest Catholic
friends delivered her baby just before 12th grade graduation. Several
years later I was a young professor in New York teaching human
sexuality when a 22 year old Muslim male student approached me for
advice on overcoming disturbing dreams that caused him to wake daily
at dawn to wash his sheets before his mother obtained evidence of his
desperate desires. He described his attraction to women and his
struggles to control what he considered immoral, unacceptable
behavior. TV was turned off to reduce temptation, masturbation was
also a religious violation, and he was not allowed to date or marry
until his older brother married, a prospect which was nowhere in
sight. Overwhelmed with shame about his inability to abstain, he
willed the unconscious explosions to stop while he slept.
Unfortunately praying doesn’t provide practical relief from nature’s
normal urges and punishing people for practicing pleasure upon oneself
in response to real hormonal reactions isn’t increasing attendance at
church.

Solo sex provides fool proof protection from unwanted consequences yet
many religious figures demonize desires to do yourself even when
marriage isn’t an accessible option. Years ago, Christian pastors
orally attacked me after I hosted a health radio show in the Cayman
Islands involving a caller that asked if masturbation could be harmful
to his health. Without ever using the ‘M’ word, I assured him
addiction was the only potential risk and provided information to help
determine if his habit qualified him as an addict. The Christian
pastors were livid and loud, shouting about the sinfulness of self
stimulation while simultaneous whispers of “everyone does it” followed
me all over the island. Here’s the real deal: Religious rules and
bedroom behaviors rarely coexist in reality.

Like almost half of all Jewish people, a Jewish girlfriend of mine is
in love with a non-Jewish man whom she lives with. We listened to
the birds chirp over brunch at Scorch last weekend and I asked how
religion influenced her sex life. “Sex is blessed in the Jewish
religion.” She is certainly right if we’re discussing married people
whom are both Jewish but, according to the information I got my hands
on, absolute acceptance isn’t assured when interfaith and premarital
play are in the mix. Are people pioneering new religious norms to fit
into their lifestyle?

Another friend of mine is an unmarried mother of five children
fathered by the same man. She lives with the father of her children
and dresses to the nines every Sunday to attend Baptist church with
her family. Contrary to Baptist principles that denounce sex outside
of a legally recognized marriage, she explained that she doesn’t need
an official piece of paper to define her relationship bond and
considers herself married. Do religious practices guide anyone’s
private decisions anymore?

Apparently not. In 2004, the U.S. Census reported the average age of
marriage in the U.S. is almost 26 for women and over 27 for men. In
contrast, most kids are having sex before they get out of high school.
Are these kids’ normal or immoral indications of religion’s failure to
halt hormones?

If religion wants to be an influential part of productive societies,
it’s time for religion to grow up along with the rest of the world.
Long ago, females got married before puberty and developed into a
woman under the watchful eyes of her husband’s family before having
sex. There was no possibility of intercourse outside of marriage
because she was locked down at 12 years old. Times have changed and in
most places, it’s illegal for children to be married before puberty.
Isn’t it time for religion to change too?

Lots of people are searching to believe in something bigger than self
and need someone to believe in them. Religious leaders are missing
awesome recruitment opportunities by enforcing unrealistic behavior
codes that foster, guilt and shame among single people in love. More
seekers would accept the healing powers of the church/mosque/temple if
they felt accepted, appreciated, needed, and normal. Casting human
desires that have existed throughout history as evil is so over. If
religion wants more players in the game, the rules have to be updated
to accept some safe, satisfying self-loving as well as sensual
relationships among singles.

As one respondent perfectly summarized, “It’s time for the Church to
realize we’re all the same religion in the bedroom, saying the same
prayer, “Oh God! Oh God! Oh God!”

(Mistress Eva says: it should be “Oh Goddess! Oh Goddess! Oh Goddess!”)

Jun 11

A Troubled Rape Case
The high-profile rape charges against Deputy District Attorney Michael Gressett are tainted by questionable facts, unorthodox prosecutorial conduct, and the unmistakable whiff of politics.
By John Geluardi

Chris Duffey
“This case has stirred up a shit storm, and the Contra Costa District Attorney’s office is right in the middle of it,” said Gressett’s chief attorney Daniel Russo.

The rape allegations from within Contra Costa County’s District Attorney’s office were bound to make big headlines. Michael Gressett was a 51-year-old deputy district attorney who worked for the sexual assault unit. His alleged victim was a 29-year-old coworker who said Gressett violently assaulted her during a lunch break. The Martinez Police Department’s September 2008 press release was replete with lurid charges like “sodomy,” “forced oral copulation,” and “penetration with a foreign object.” The alleged props — including a gun, handcuffs, steak knife, ice cubes, and an ice pick — seemed plucked from the pages of a Marquis de Sade novel.

Not surprisingly, the story attracted wide attention. The San Francisco Chronicle assigned two reporters and the Contra Costa Times posted a complete copy of the criminal complaint on its web site. Television news joined the fray, and soon Gressett’s face was plastered all across the Bay Area. And no one followed the story more closely than the lawyers and politicians who work for Contra Costa County. So many people have viewed the case file that clerks in the courthouse keep it handy like it was a popular library book. When a reporter asked for the file by its case number, the clerk immediately said, “Oh, you want the Gressett file.”

The veteran prosecutor’s reputation as an office iconoclast only added to the case’s newsworthiness. Gressett has run for the position of Contra Costa County District Attorney three separate times, putting him in disfavor with the old-boy power structure that has controlled the office for decades. After the charges came to light, District Attorney Robert Kochly did what he could to distance his office from Gressett’s alleged behavior. “It’s a sad day for our office for anything like this to occur,” Kochly told the Chronicle. “Anything of this nature is devastating to the office. It’s antithetical to what we’re about.”

After his arrest, Gressett might have been expected to cease being a thorn in management’s side. Once he was released from jail on a $1 million bond, he was promptly fired. He now faces a possible life sentence for thirteen felony counts including rape, forced sodomy, forced oral copulation, and making death threats.

But instead of slinking away, his defense team has mounted an aggressive investigation that is shedding a withering light on both the DA’s office and the charges against him. The inquiry exposed an office sexual culture so highly charged that it makes HBO’s Mad Men look like pimply sophomores toeing their insteps at a high school dance mixer. The inquiry also sheds light on an unusual contract hiring system in which young attorneys like the alleged victim live in constant fear of losing their jobs. “Pandora’s box has been opened and what’s inside is not pretty,” said Michael Cardoza, one of Gressett’s defense attorneys. “I was a deputy district attorney for sixteen years and I am appalled at what goes on in that office.”

Read the rest here: http://www.eastbayexpress.com/gyrobase/a-troubled-rape-case/Content?oid=1371765&showFullText=true

Jun 9

http://www.hotdesivideo.com/blog/?p=16494

June 4th, 2010 admin
Several weeks ago, I went out to dinner with a female friend. During
dinner I asked her if she had seen Brokeback Mountain yet. She said,
“No, I have no desire to see two men kissing all over each other.” I
asked her if she would be willing to do me a favor and see the movie
anyway. I told her I had a theory and I wanted to see if I was right
about something, so she agreed. We met for lunch after she went to see
the movie. I asked her what she thought – it turns out that she loved
it. I asked her if she was turned off or disgusted by any of the
sexual scenes; she said, “No, surprisingly enough, I wasn’t turned off
by them at all.” I decided to take it a step further. I asked her if
she was turned on by any of the scenes in the movie. Her face turned
red and she said, “I have no idea why, but yes, I was turned on by
them.” This isn’t the first time I’ve heard a woman say that after
having seen the movie. I think I know why women are finding the sexual
scenes in Brokeback Mountain so arousing, but before I explain, let me
digress just a little.

During an interview a radio talk show host brought up the fact that
females aren’t as visual as males. She said that was the reason there
aren’t nearly as many male strip clubs as there are female strip
clubs. As I discussed in Women’s Infidelity, the word “more” creates a
lot of confusion between the sexes. Whenever it has been determined
that one sex is “more” of anything, we fail to remember that the other
sex still has that trait, only to a lesser degree. For example, males
have more hair than females, but that doesn’t mean that females don’t
have hair. Males like more sexual variety than females, but that
doesn’t mean females don’t like sexual variety. Likewise, males may be
more visual than females, but that in no way means that females aren’t
visual. Having said that, I would like to address not only how women
feel about watching men have sex, but also how women feel about male
strip clubs as well as male prostitution.

Heterosexual females are attracted to masculinity. Women don’t get
turned on by watching men act like women. So, going to a strip club
and watching men dance around in what can best be described as bikini
panties is not a turn on for most females. If you want women to pay to
see men, then build a bar with a glass front on a construction site
and you’ll make a fortune. The female animal likes to watch physically
fit men work. If men want to get women’s attention, all they have to
do is take off their shirts and lift something heavy or pick up a
shovel and start digging a hole. Trust me, men would receive the same
kind of attention that they normally give to partially exposed, pushed-
up breasts.

This explains my friend’s arousal during the sexual scenes in
Brokeback Mountain – the sexual scenes were extremely masculine. The
men weren’t caressing and cuddling with each other; the love scenes
were very passionate and aggressive. Passion and aggression are what
arouse the female animal.

Now, on to the issue of male prostitution, someone just recently asked
me, “If women like sex as much as men, why aren’t there more male
prostitutes running around?” Well, I can think of several reasons.
First of all, until recently, women didn’t have any money, so
obviously paying for sex wasn’t an option. Likewise, females
experiencing pleasure from sex is also something that is relatively
new. Prior to 60-65 years ago sex was only thought of as pleasurable
for males; therefore was no information available about how to please
women sexually. Plus, when females did experience sexual pleasure they
were encouraged to hide their pleasure from their partners in order to
make the men feel more secure. However, those reasons aside, there’s
still the undeniable fact that a male has a hard time pleasing just
one female, while a female has the ability to please many males…
although now, Viagra may help to alleviate this problem. (For further
explanation see Women’s Infidelity, Chapter 6: Why Women Find Affair
Sex Particularly Appealing.)

Therefore, in the past, circumstances were such that male prostitution
couldn’t even be a plausible fantasy, much less a reality. Men like
porn because it is made to appeal to their desires and fantasies. Now
that women have economic freedom for the first time in history, they
are able to voice their desires – more and more it’s becoming clear
that who they are and what they desire is quite different from who
they were forced to be in the past.

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