Aug 22

There is not a week that goes by that I do not get a sub asking me to be his Mistress. Understand its takes more than being able to take pain or licking my pussy for hours.

To be a good phone submissive, be able to communicate your needs and desires well. I am a Amazing Mistress but I am not a mind reader. Also tell me if you have big turnoffs. With that being said, I will then know how I wish to direct your training. Be very eager to please me. OBEY! Do not cum without my permission! I will use you well! When your phone training session is done, Thank your Mistress. Then leave me great written feedback. I like for my subs to call at least once weekly but more is encouraged.

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Are you curious about what I require from my Lifestyle submissives?
First and foremost, they need to be trustwothy. Never lie to me. A personal submissive is responsible for serving me and caring for everything I own. I need to be able to trust you with my home if I am away. Lying and stealing is punished with prompt dismissal. I have zero tolerance for it.

Trust is the Foundation for any healthy relationship.

A personal submissive should very eager to please. For him its a need. Be quick to do whatever I ask of you. Making me smile gives you pure bliss.

You must be a obedient. What I order becomes a law for you. Disobey and you will be punished. Obey and please me, you may get rewarded.

You must need structure. I will bring structure to your chaotic life. I will know your daily routine intimately. I will become the center of your Universe. I will not take away your time for work, family, friends or your spiritual faith. The rest I will control.

A potential submissive must be single. I do not allow married men to serve me personally. If you lie to your wife, you can lie to me. The same goes for girlfriends too.

A good submissive should be devoted. When you are being trained by me, you serve no other. If I find out you are serving another Mistress, you will be instantly dismissed. I invest a lot of time and effort into my personal submissives. If you cannot give 100%, why should I?

You must have time to serve me. Starting out, I will train you once weekly but as we progress, I will want to see you more often. Eventually, I will want you to serve me daily. If you do not have the time, do not waste my time!

I do prefer masochists or subs who enjoy taking pain. I am really a Erotic Sadist. I enjoy increasing the pain threshold of my subs. If you have seen my list of BDSM Interests, you know I am very experienced in wide variety of torture and Fetishes. Yes, I really do what I list!

A good submissive should be gainfully employed. If you dream of being a 24/7 house slave, then we are not a good fit. I am not a Sugar Momma! If I choose to train you, you will contribute to the household. Especially if you live with me. I am a Queen and I love being spoiled. If you do not like to spoil your Mistress, we are not a good fit.

I enjoy Chastity Training for my personal submissives. It is a very effective training tool. If you cannot handle it, we are not a good fit.

Long Distance subs are OK but hard to train well. I will not relocate to your home. You will come to me.

You must love cats! I own 5 amazing cats and I consider them family, Hurt them and I will come after your ass!

I am naturally Nocturnal. That means I am up all night and sleep most of the day. I am pretty goth minus the black hair in many ways. lol I have tried to become a day walker so many times and it never lasts.

I am Wiccan and you need to be OK with that. Yes, I am a Goddess Worshipper! That does not mean that I will try to convert you but you do need to be supportive.

There must be a “connection” between us. Otherwise are just going through the motions. If we connect, it will happen naturally.

Last but not least, your must be comfortable with me being Professional Dominatrix and Phone Mistress. My work is a passion of mine. I love what I do. Except if you are a millionare, I plan of doing my work until I am too old to do it anymore. If you cannot handle that, do not

That about sums it up. If you have any questions, you may comment here or message me privately.

In Leather, In Link,
Mistress Eva Lordes
www.MistressEvaLordes.com
DommeEmpire.com

Jul 20

Mistress is so excited! I am going to be filming with some amazing subs this week!

Strap On!
Max can take the biggest dildos I have ever seen! I am talking 15 inches and wider than a coke can! I cannot wait to fuck him!

Fisting!
Yes! I am going to Fist Max too! I have seen what he can take! He can take my fists!

Single Tail Whipping!
Ever wanted to feel the sting of a real whip? I plan on whipping Max hard! You get to see it all.

Face Sitting!
I get to use Trigger as a sit cushion! I have been looking forward to this for quite some time! I will wear black panty hose. Still deciding what else to wear.

I will be posting more details soon!

Mistress Eva
www.DommeEmpire.com
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Jul 6

I found this wonderful site with great BDSM and Fetish Items! My wishlist consists of things I would love for my Dungeon. You will discover that wishlist has gifts for every budget. But remember, You should impress your Mistress!

What I want most is the Rimba powerbox. Also its Electro attachments for CBT, Vaginal, and Anal Play. Dont forget the Rimba Electro Gel, it helps conduct electricity!

Secondly, I want the Masters Violet Wand set. I have been wanting one for years but can never afford it. Getting this would would make me very happy and thrilled!

I would also enjoy the Black Enema Set! I love Medical Play! I would be awesome if you also got the Silicone Anal Catheter with Bulbs too. I really like my sub’s ass to be clean before we do anal play! ;-)

All the rest of the gifts are things that I would really enjoy and would add to my play time.

IMPRESS ME! Spoil your Blonde Curvy Goddess!

Mistress Eva Lordes
www.MistressEvaLordes.com
www.DommeEmpire.com

Jul 2

Mistress cannot wait to go to the party tonight. There will be human ponies, human pigs and crossdressers there! Its so warm in NC so I can’t get too dressed up. I will be going with a sweet submissive girl that I am getting to know. There will be some vendors there too. I am interested in getting a professional Enema Bag with dildo attachments! Yes, I am a Bitchy Freak! I hope to have some stories to tell!

Mistress Eva
www.MistressEvaLordes.com
www.DommeEmpire.com

Jul 1

BDSM, once viewed as the exclusive fiefdom of really creepy perverts, has crossed over and become quasi-respectable, stylish and safe.

It’s just another day at The Armory in San Francisco: A bound and naked woman is laid out on a stylish serving table. Elegantly-dressed people of both sexes gather around—enjoying the view, apparently—and take turns having their way with her. Various devices are deployed—dildos, floggers, electrical stimulators. She says “Thank you, sir” and “Thank you, madam” frequently.

Welcome to “The Upper Floor,” a high-definition Internet reality show where, website copy states, “real submissive women and real submissive men become house slaves to be dominated, trained, punished, spanked, whipped, and fucked … Inspired by the legendary French BDSM erotic novel The Story of O, The Upper Floor illustrates real lifestyle BDSM as it is lived by 24/7 slaves and Masters, complete with … explicit sex in bondage, punishment, erotic humiliation, and more.”

The Upper Floor is a project of Kink.com, a thriving pornography business that was founded by Peter Acworth, a British-born entrepreneur and lifelong aficionado of BDSM (for Bondage, Domination, Submission—or Sadism—and Masochism). Kink.com sells subscriptions to websites with names like Hogtied.com, SexandSubmission.com and, yes, TheUpperFloor.com. Acworth often attends these, er, corporate events. “He’s the master of the house,” says colleague John Sander.

Only in Satan’s City by the Bay, right? Not exactly. Acworth was recently invited to speak at a summit on innovation convened by the ever-so-respectable The Economist. That’s right—the king of kink was given a place on the dais alongside a Harvard Business School professor, an Intuit business executive and other decent folk. Whether you view this as the end of civilization or a sign of progress, one thing is sure: a barrier has come down.

BDSM is all over our entertainment media, too. In her latest music video, Christina Aguilera slaps a riding crop against her palm, laps from a cat dish, and sports a rhinestone-studded ball gag. In movies like the 2005 comedy hit The Wedding Crashers and television shows like the self-consciously low-brow mockumentary RENO 911!, kinky scenes are played for laughs.

The lesson, kiddies? BDSM, once viewed as the exclusive fiefdom of really creepy perverts, has crossed over and become quasi-respectable, stylish and safe. Comical, even!

The shifting public perception of BDSM is one of those seeming overnight changes that was centuries in the making. In the late 18th Century, the Marquis de Sade put his profoundly sick-puppy stamp on kink, firmly establishing it as sex play (sex pain, really) between non-consenting adults. A hundred years later, when psychologists started studying this behavior, they found their subjects in insane asylums. “Criminals were their point of reference,” says Denver-based sex therapist Neil Cannon. No wonder, then, that BDSM meant a brute in a basement with an unwilling woman and a whip.

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Mistree Eva Says: I personally do not like this trend. I liked it when BDSM was Dark, Mysterious and forbidden. Alas, its still Taboo enough hat you don’t want vanilla friends, family and coworkers knowing that you are into BDSM. If you are not “out”, you still have to be careful with your kinky PICS and your scene names. So its still Taboo on many levels!

Jun 11

A Troubled Rape Case
The high-profile rape charges against Deputy District Attorney Michael Gressett are tainted by questionable facts, unorthodox prosecutorial conduct, and the unmistakable whiff of politics.
By John Geluardi

Chris Duffey
“This case has stirred up a shit storm, and the Contra Costa District Attorney’s office is right in the middle of it,” said Gressett’s chief attorney Daniel Russo.

The rape allegations from within Contra Costa County’s District Attorney’s office were bound to make big headlines. Michael Gressett was a 51-year-old deputy district attorney who worked for the sexual assault unit. His alleged victim was a 29-year-old coworker who said Gressett violently assaulted her during a lunch break. The Martinez Police Department’s September 2008 press release was replete with lurid charges like “sodomy,” “forced oral copulation,” and “penetration with a foreign object.” The alleged props — including a gun, handcuffs, steak knife, ice cubes, and an ice pick — seemed plucked from the pages of a Marquis de Sade novel.

Not surprisingly, the story attracted wide attention. The San Francisco Chronicle assigned two reporters and the Contra Costa Times posted a complete copy of the criminal complaint on its web site. Television news joined the fray, and soon Gressett’s face was plastered all across the Bay Area. And no one followed the story more closely than the lawyers and politicians who work for Contra Costa County. So many people have viewed the case file that clerks in the courthouse keep it handy like it was a popular library book. When a reporter asked for the file by its case number, the clerk immediately said, “Oh, you want the Gressett file.”

The veteran prosecutor’s reputation as an office iconoclast only added to the case’s newsworthiness. Gressett has run for the position of Contra Costa County District Attorney three separate times, putting him in disfavor with the old-boy power structure that has controlled the office for decades. After the charges came to light, District Attorney Robert Kochly did what he could to distance his office from Gressett’s alleged behavior. “It’s a sad day for our office for anything like this to occur,” Kochly told the Chronicle. “Anything of this nature is devastating to the office. It’s antithetical to what we’re about.”

After his arrest, Gressett might have been expected to cease being a thorn in management’s side. Once he was released from jail on a $1 million bond, he was promptly fired. He now faces a possible life sentence for thirteen felony counts including rape, forced sodomy, forced oral copulation, and making death threats.

But instead of slinking away, his defense team has mounted an aggressive investigation that is shedding a withering light on both the DA’s office and the charges against him. The inquiry exposed an office sexual culture so highly charged that it makes HBO’s Mad Men look like pimply sophomores toeing their insteps at a high school dance mixer. The inquiry also sheds light on an unusual contract hiring system in which young attorneys like the alleged victim live in constant fear of losing their jobs. “Pandora’s box has been opened and what’s inside is not pretty,” said Michael Cardoza, one of Gressett’s defense attorneys. “I was a deputy district attorney for sixteen years and I am appalled at what goes on in that office.”

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Mar 23


Mar 17

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I just got back from a awesome trip to DC! I went there for two reasons. One to have fun sessions and two, SHOP!

I had four sessions scheduled but only two showed up. I was not shocked. Alas, the ones who stood me up were put on my BAD BOY list! Anyone who stands me up gets listed there. They will have to pay a high deposit to ever see me.

One of my sweet subs brought me a box of Godiva Dark Chocolate Truffles which were Divine. Funny enough, another sub spoke of a story about a psycho who made some disgusting soap made with his urine and he dipped it in Godiva Chocolate and put it in a fancy box with ribbons and presented it to his dinner date. She bit into it and was obviously disgusted by the taste but yet ate the whole thing because she didnt want to be rude. The psycho gets off on this and is wanking under the table. This has stuck in this sub’s mind all this time. So I was happy to offer him a truffle. It was amusing to watch him bite into it hesitantly then smile when it was rich and delicious.

I had a wonderful time shopping at the Crucible’s Leather Flea Market. My best buy was a leather pig hood with snap on eye covers and a zipper on the mouth. Its perfect for my Humiliation sluts! I got a beautiful burgandy dragontail from Dragontails. After a little practice, I felt very comfortble using it. Rainbow Rope sells medical play supplies and I picked up Proctoscope and some 22g needles. I also got some sterile lube for my sounds kit.

At Details, I discovered that a friend of mine has taken over the business. I got a nice braided flogger, a paddle with SLUT on it and a singletail with spray of tails on the end.

I got some smaller odds and ends I left the Fleamarket satisfied but poorer..lol

I went to the Crucible’s play party and enjoyed the company of James and Danny. I did not bring my toy bag to the party but I still gave a young sub a good spanking! It was great seeing old friends and making new ones too.

I did not go to bed until 4 am and was out of the hotel by 10 am. I slept for most of the ride back to Chester then drove back to Durham.

I am looking forward going to DC again next weekend!

Feb 25


I laughed my ass off!
Hope you do too!

Mistress Eva

Jan 30

My house has around seven inches of snow now. Its the most snow we have had in years! Joe, a sub from up North, braved the roads and still saw me for a session today. I put him in a leather hood along with a inflatable dildo in his mouth. I then bound him to my St. Andew’s Cross and began to wam him up with my whips. I loved whipping his ass, back and thighs! He responded so nicely and I enjoyed his muffled growls. I then got my heavy leather paddle and started to beat him good. But I think he enjoyed my single tail whip the best. It left such delicious marks on his back!

I then unbound him and laid him own on the floor. I began kicking his balls slowly then harder. I enjoyed stomping and kicking cock! I then used a urethral sound on him. It was new for him. But the sound slid nicely into his cock. I teased him with it, slowly sliding it up and down…I then put over thirty clothes pins on his balls while I used nipple clamps on his nipples. He took it really well.

He then got a warm soapy Enema! I then got him on the spanking bench, gloved up and played with his ass. Stretching him open with my fingers. I used a smaller dildoe on him and fucked his ass real good. Then I got my electrical butt plug and put it up his ass. He took it really well and I about got him to full power! He came explosively not long after!

Im happy and satisfied too! I get to enjoy the day inside..nice and warm…

MISTRESS EVA LORDES

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