Aug 26

Despite recession, good time for sex toy industry: Amazon, Brooklyn’s
Shag sales on the rise!

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BY Joe Jackson
DAILY NEWS WRITER
The Dow may be down, but the sex toy industry is heating up online and
in store. From Web behemoth Amazon to Brooklyn boutique store Shag,
sales of an increasing range of sexual accessories are on the rise.

“Everyone says thank God you opened - it’s about time,” said Sam Bard,
36, who co-founded Shag in Williamsburg last December.

“Each month’s been better than the last,” she said.

The “sexy shop” sells everything from vintage handcuffs to body paints
and hosts sex-themed events like “introductory lessons in rope-bondage.”

Bard believes the recession helped the business, which opened on
Roebling St. for rent considered low for the gentrified neighborhood.

“More couples are staying at home to save money, so rather [than]
spending $150 on a one-time dinner, they will spend the same amount
for toys that will continue to be used indefinitely,” she said.

Customers agree. “The expense of the toys is so insignificant compared
to the growth of the relationship sexually,” said Heather, 40, who
admits that even though she’s on a tight budget, she and her boyfriend
laid down $150 on a “his and her” vibrator.

Sex accessories store Babeland, which has three outlets in the city,
makes half of its sales online. It recorded an 18% spike in Web
visitors and a 13% jump in sales in 2009.

“New Yorkers account for the biggest percentage of our online sales,”
said spokeswoman Pamela Doan.

Meanwhile, even household company names are getting in on the action.
Amazon launched its Sexual Wellness page in 2003 with 338 items,
mainly condoms and lubricants. But it soon began to market more
adventurous items - restraints, vibrators and flavored lubricants.

“We’ve seen this category grow pretty significantly over the last
couple of years,” said spokeswoman Charmaine Diploa. Now the company
stocks nearly 60,000 items, with adult toys and games being the
biggest share.

A recent week’s best-selling item was the “Magic Wand Massager” - a
nonphallic vibrator - and “Doc Johnson Lucid Dream #5″ - a multispeed
waterproof stimulator.

Amazon reckons its sales surge is due to its discretion - and unique
brand of convenience.

“Customers receive an Amazon box and no one needs to know what’s
inside except for that customer,” said Diploa. “And they love the fact
they can purchase a vibrator, a watch and a Kindle all in one place.”

(Mistress Eva says, There will always be death taxes and SEX! Until the human race ends, SEX will sell. Ironically, my Phone Domination/Phone Sex Business is doing well considering we are in a Recession. August was one of my busiest months! Now maybe I should sell sex toys too!)

Mistress Eva
DommeEmpire.com
Call Me! 1-800-TO-FLIRT Extension: 94-39-577

Aug 22

There is not a week that goes by that I do not get a sub asking me to be his Mistress. Understand its takes more than being able to take pain or licking my pussy for hours.

To be a good phone submissive, be able to communicate your needs and desires well. I am a Amazing Mistress but I am not a mind reader. Also tell me if you have big turnoffs. With that being said, I will then know how I wish to direct your training. Be very eager to please me. OBEY! Do not cum without my permission! I will use you well! When your phone training session is done, Thank your Mistress. Then leave me great written feedback. I like for my subs to call at least once weekly but more is encouraged.

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Are you curious about what I require from my Lifestyle submissives?
First and foremost, they need to be trustwothy. Never lie to me. A personal submissive is responsible for serving me and caring for everything I own. I need to be able to trust you with my home if I am away. Lying and stealing is punished with prompt dismissal. I have zero tolerance for it.

Trust is the Foundation for any healthy relationship.

A personal submissive should very eager to please. For him its a need. Be quick to do whatever I ask of you. Making me smile gives you pure bliss.

You must be a obedient. What I order becomes a law for you. Disobey and you will be punished. Obey and please me, you may get rewarded.

You must need structure. I will bring structure to your chaotic life. I will know your daily routine intimately. I will become the center of your Universe. I will not take away your time for work, family, friends or your spiritual faith. The rest I will control.

A potential submissive must be single. I do not allow married men to serve me personally. If you lie to your wife, you can lie to me. The same goes for girlfriends too.

A good submissive should be devoted. When you are being trained by me, you serve no other. If I find out you are serving another Mistress, you will be instantly dismissed. I invest a lot of time and effort into my personal submissives. If you cannot give 100%, why should I?

You must have time to serve me. Starting out, I will train you once weekly but as we progress, I will want to see you more often. Eventually, I will want you to serve me daily. If you do not have the time, do not waste my time!

I do prefer masochists or subs who enjoy taking pain. I am really a Erotic Sadist. I enjoy increasing the pain threshold of my subs. If you have seen my list of BDSM Interests, you know I am very experienced in wide variety of torture and Fetishes. Yes, I really do what I list!

A good submissive should be gainfully employed. If you dream of being a 24/7 house slave, then we are not a good fit. I am not a Sugar Momma! If I choose to train you, you will contribute to the household. Especially if you live with me. I am a Queen and I love being spoiled. If you do not like to spoil your Mistress, we are not a good fit.

I enjoy Chastity Training for my personal submissives. It is a very effective training tool. If you cannot handle it, we are not a good fit.

Long Distance subs are OK but hard to train well. I will not relocate to your home. You will come to me.

You must love cats! I own 5 amazing cats and I consider them family, Hurt them and I will come after your ass!

I am naturally Nocturnal. That means I am up all night and sleep most of the day. I am pretty goth minus the black hair in many ways. lol I have tried to become a day walker so many times and it never lasts.

I am Wiccan and you need to be OK with that. Yes, I am a Goddess Worshipper! That does not mean that I will try to convert you but you do need to be supportive.

There must be a “connection” between us. Otherwise are just going through the motions. If we connect, it will happen naturally.

Last but not least, your must be comfortable with me being Professional Dominatrix and Phone Mistress. My work is a passion of mine. I love what I do. Except if you are a millionare, I plan of doing my work until I am too old to do it anymore. If you cannot handle that, do not

That about sums it up. If you have any questions, you may comment here or message me privately.

In Leather, In Link,
Mistress Eva Lordes
www.MistressEvaLordes.com
DommeEmpire.com

Jun 23

Your Mistress had some extra cash so I decided to go shopping for size 11 women shoes. As you probably already know, that is easier said than done. Well, I have found a secret hot spot. I also found another hot spot locally for more expensive shoes and they sell stilettos too.

I got a black ones with a three inch heel. A deep red one with gold bows that has three inch heels. Also a pair of dark brown ballerina shoes. There is a couple more that I am looking at too.

Now I just need a sissy princess to try them on! ;-)

I also offer sissy shopping trips for $100.00 a hour. I always have so much fun!

Mistress Eva Lordes
www.MistressEvaLordes.com
www.DommeEmpire.com

Mar 28

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Mistress Eva

Mar 17

A fellow Flirt who is not worthy of recognition, became obsessed with my listings on Niteflirt. I had noticed that in the forum she would give the other Phone Mistresses hell, especially the ones more higher rated than her’s. I posted on forum to ask about free blogs for PSOs, she teared into me big time and told me I was against TOS etc etc. She was completely rude. Before I could fix my listings, she had reported me to Niteflirt’s Playfair. My listings were pulled and needed editing. I would do what Niteflirt asked but she kept reporting every single thing she could.

A couple weeks ago, I tried to sign to Niteflirt and I couldnt. I find Niteflirt’s dear John letter in my email. It didnt matter that I had been with them for seven years. It didnt matter that I had made them lots of money. It didnt matter that I was rated 16th highest rated Mistress. I was devastated. All my hard work thrown away just like that. Outside of Prodomming, this was my biggest source of income. Thank goodness I dont have a family to support!

For days I mourned and was very depressed. I didnt know what to do. Then it hit me. I went back to Donald Trump’s Book, “Think Big and Kick Ass!”. Chapter six is titled, “Revenge”. on page 186 he says.”When somebody hits you, hit’em back harder!

I have no issues with Niteflirt, they were trying to do their job. I do wish they were more understanding though. My beef is with this PSO. Im not resorting to childish games. I plan on proving once again that I am one of the best Phone Mistresses out there. That Bitch made a big mistake. I am more fired up now than I was before! I have big plans ahead. I will keep you posted.

Mistress Eva Lordes
www.MistressEvaLordes.com

Mar 17

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I just got back from a awesome trip to DC! I went there for two reasons. One to have fun sessions and two, SHOP!

I had four sessions scheduled but only two showed up. I was not shocked. Alas, the ones who stood me up were put on my BAD BOY list! Anyone who stands me up gets listed there. They will have to pay a high deposit to ever see me.

One of my sweet subs brought me a box of Godiva Dark Chocolate Truffles which were Divine. Funny enough, another sub spoke of a story about a psycho who made some disgusting soap made with his urine and he dipped it in Godiva Chocolate and put it in a fancy box with ribbons and presented it to his dinner date. She bit into it and was obviously disgusted by the taste but yet ate the whole thing because she didnt want to be rude. The psycho gets off on this and is wanking under the table. This has stuck in this sub’s mind all this time. So I was happy to offer him a truffle. It was amusing to watch him bite into it hesitantly then smile when it was rich and delicious.

I had a wonderful time shopping at the Crucible’s Leather Flea Market. My best buy was a leather pig hood with snap on eye covers and a zipper on the mouth. Its perfect for my Humiliation sluts! I got a beautiful burgandy dragontail from Dragontails. After a little practice, I felt very comfortble using it. Rainbow Rope sells medical play supplies and I picked up Proctoscope and some 22g needles. I also got some sterile lube for my sounds kit.

At Details, I discovered that a friend of mine has taken over the business. I got a nice braided flogger, a paddle with SLUT on it and a singletail with spray of tails on the end.

I got some smaller odds and ends I left the Fleamarket satisfied but poorer..lol

I went to the Crucible’s play party and enjoyed the company of James and Danny. I did not bring my toy bag to the party but I still gave a young sub a good spanking! It was great seeing old friends and making new ones too.

I did not go to bed until 4 am and was out of the hotel by 10 am. I slept for most of the ride back to Chester then drove back to Durham.

I am looking forward going to DC again next weekend!

Feb 25


I laughed my ass off!
Hope you do too!

Mistress Eva

Jan 30

My house has around seven inches of snow now. Its the most snow we have had in years! Joe, a sub from up North, braved the roads and still saw me for a session today. I put him in a leather hood along with a inflatable dildo in his mouth. I then bound him to my St. Andew’s Cross and began to wam him up with my whips. I loved whipping his ass, back and thighs! He responded so nicely and I enjoyed his muffled growls. I then got my heavy leather paddle and started to beat him good. But I think he enjoyed my single tail whip the best. It left such delicious marks on his back!

I then unbound him and laid him own on the floor. I began kicking his balls slowly then harder. I enjoyed stomping and kicking cock! I then used a urethral sound on him. It was new for him. But the sound slid nicely into his cock. I teased him with it, slowly sliding it up and down…I then put over thirty clothes pins on his balls while I used nipple clamps on his nipples. He took it really well.

He then got a warm soapy Enema! I then got him on the spanking bench, gloved up and played with his ass. Stretching him open with my fingers. I used a smaller dildoe on him and fucked his ass real good. Then I got my electrical butt plug and put it up his ass. He took it really well and I about got him to full power! He came explosively not long after!

Im happy and satisfied too! I get to enjoy the day inside..nice and warm…

MISTRESS EVA LORDES

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Sep 23

Your Mistress is very excited! I have about completed my Playroom! (Photos will be coming!) I have a padded leather St. Andrews Cross, A padded Spanking Bench, a very hot antique GYN Medical chair and a cozy twin bed for after care. It feels so good to have my BDSM toys and restraints displayed in one room! The energy there is awesome! I plan on doing some photo shoots in there soon!

MISTRESS EVA LORDES
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Need my control? Hunger for my voice?
Got to: http://beta.niteflirt.com/users/MISTRESS%20EVA%20LORDES

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Sep 19

We are working around the clock, all through the night and all through the weekend to get us back up and running as soon as we can. That said, this has turned into a situation we didn’t expect. Simply put in, the system is very complicated. The system is very complicated and we will need another week to get us in a place where we can go live. Yes. Another week.

I know that most of you have 2 main concerns. Your Money and your customers.

To help with both of these concerns, we are inviting you to use the beta site. You can get there by going to beta.niteflirt.com. Take calls, send mail, tell your best customers they can log into their accounts and give you a call. Everything you earn will be paid. If you elect Express Pay, the 2% fee will not be charged, but it also won’t run as smoothly as before. This will allow you to earn money and connect with your favorite customers as we continue to work to get us back up. And the bugs you find will help us identify issues and get the site back up quicker and once it is up it will be stronger.

But be warned – this is not our best foot forward and is not a site we are ready to reveal to the general public. You will have problems.
Listings are not sorted correctly.
When you have payments deducted from your account it says paycheck, even if you are paid by direct deposit.
Some calls won’t go through.
Some people won’ be able to recharge on the phone.
Some calls won’t post to your account! Keep notes on all your calls and if a call does not post within 10 minutes of it ending, let us know by filling out a customer support form.
Some people can’t even see the site.
800-TO-FLIRT is down. Extensions do not work.
Other crazy things will happen, go wrong and not work. When this happens send us a support form. Please try to avoid posting the details of your account in the forum – this is for your own privacy and we may miss some posts. It will help us tremendously to detail the issue in a support form.
Please, please don’t get worried when something goes wrong. If you don’t want to deal with a service that is not 100% - don’t take calls. Not to sound harsh, but it is really as simple as that.

I know your mad and you have a right to be. And no matter what I say, you will still be mad. I’m not even going to try and say something that I think will make you feel better. We know we made a mistake and we know it is going to take a lot to get back in your good graces. But if we could keep the conversation here to questions it would benefit us all. If you want to let us have it, you can do it in a support form - at least then you others can get their questions answered.

We’re working on this and we will be back. We really appreciate your patience and understanding.

Below are some previous posts of interest.

Sampling of the beta site: http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/433-Sampling-the-Beta-Site#2927

What is going on: http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/15-What-s-Going-On-!-#2965

Why we are not live and don’t have a time frame. http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/161-We-will-*not*-be-going-live-Thursday#1313

Why we are not up: http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/51-Why-we-are-not-up—

Speaker Pay: http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/385-Speaker-Payment

We did not go up Thursday: http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/161-We-will-*not*-be-going-live-Thursday

Why we don’t have a time frame http://forum.niteflirt.com/forums/3-Customer-Support/topics/161-We-will-*not*-be-going-live-Thursday#1313

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